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Kissing
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Speaker 2:Welcome to a Queen's Opinion. My name is Queen, my voice, my opinion and your listening ears. My voice, my opinion and your listening ears. This episode we are talking about kissing. Has kissing changed for you? Kissing, kissing, kissing, like we used to do back in the day, you know you would kiss all the time Kiss on the cheek, kiss on the neck, kiss on the ear, Kiss, kiss, kiss. But it's not the same. These days Kissing is very different. Some people don't even want to kiss. They just like the hugging and cuddling and a peck every now and then on the cheek. But that passionate kissing does not happen often.
Speaker 2:You know the first kiss that you were so nervous about doing to another person when you were in your teenage years. You know it was so exciting to be kissed and wanting to kiss someone. You know you didn't know how to tongue kiss your first kiss. You didn't know how wide you're supposed to open your mouth or how much tongue you were supposed to give someone. You just wanted to kiss that person. You know, or you thought when you kissed that person it was going to be all good. And when you did apply that kiss, you became all tingly and hot.
Speaker 2:Do you remember that first kiss. Let me give you a few seconds for that mind to take you on a flashback of that first kiss. Oh yes, you remember. You remember when that young man pulled you close into your arms and kissed your lips softly. Your heart was racing. Your eyes were open at first, then slowly closed. The body started feeling warm between your legs and fluids started being produced. Yes, yes. And then you both opened your mouth just a little bit and he stuck his tongue into your mouth and you followed suit and stuck your tongue in his mouth. Both of you exchanged saliva. It sounds so nasty now when we hear the saliva exchange, but back in the day, honey, that didn't even bother you In the moment. Yes, that kiss was everything.
Speaker 2:We really didn't know what to do with our tongue, except for what we learned from watching someone else. So you stuck your tongue in that other person's mouth. Now y'all tongues may have touched a little bit and you're moving it around a little bit, and the more you did that, the body reacted to the movement. Your body is thumping, growing wetter. You know what I'm talking about, right? Oh, yes, I love to be kissed. I don't know about you, but kissing is the jump off. If you do it right, it's the jump off for part two. You know what I'm saying, right? Part two taking the clothes off and putting other things in place. Yes, kissing is the jump off. Kissing is the jump off.
Speaker 2:Well, as you got older and more experienced in kissing, it got better. As you got older, after the children, the kissing changed. Now the kissing was strictly on the cheek, the neck and the forehead. You began to ask yourself do I even like kissing? Do I want to kiss anymore? Now you kiss with a closed mouth and puckered lip. You open your mouth not to give or receive a strong, passionate tongue kiss, but to say the words I love you. With closed lips and a pucker kiss, that's all you are getting right now because you got those children to deal with, working for the man and coming home to handle all those requirements too. But you want to show him, yes, I'm still engaged in this relationship, yes, I am still in it and, yes, I love you. Now go on with your business because I have things around the house to do.
Speaker 2:This stage happens over 40. Every now and then, when you and him want to make some passionate love, you kiss, like you did at the beginning, with your tongue. You know, with the tongue kissing, yes, tongue kissing starts suddenly boom, pop, that sexy feeling To let each other know. I remember the tingle from kissing. Yes, kissing tingling. Yes. Now, later down the road, yes, once again you change, he changes and you are back to the kissing on lips closed. Now kissing is different when you're over the age of 50. Kissing now, over the age of 50, has gone down to kissing for remembrance and appreciation. A kiss in the morning with closed lips, say I remember you. Yes, I remember this man in my bed and I love him. Remember this man in my bed and I love him. A kiss when you leave the house to go handle your business, to let him know I'll be back later. A kiss when you return from your daily chores to remind each other that I'm still here with you. A kiss while you're preparing dinner to let each other know you appreciate all that you do for each other. A kiss at bedtime to say I love you, good night and I'll see you in the morning.
Speaker 2:Kissing is not the same when you get way past the 40s and 50s. You now kiss with meaning, purpose and that death-do-you-part love. No need for all that tongue and saliva passing anymore. It's okay to not want to kiss, or at least not want to tongue kiss. I don't want to kiss sometimes, but I do it because kissing reminds both of us that we're still in love and we still love each other and we still feel and look sexy to each other. So kissing is a reminder. You don't have to get all turnt up like in the younger days, because being together is enough. Looking at his face with those beautiful eyes is more than enough. You know what I told you about the eyes, right? If you don't remember, go back to catch that episode. But the eyes are so beautiful and I love my man's eyes. Yes, I do, but I don't need the tongue kissing to get me turned on. You see, according to the dictionary, kissing is to join lips in respect, affection, love and passion. Kissing is to touch or press with the lips slightly pursed. Based on this definition, I am good. No tongue required. Do you still kiss? Give the queen some feedback. Shoot me a text, email me or Instagram post. You can even click the button below to like this episode. Share it with your friends. I can't wait to hear back from you.
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