A Queen's Opinion Podcast
A Queen’s Opinion is a podcast that allows people, especially women, to think aloud about life situations and seek an opinion without being judged. No more thinking about or questioning a situation by yourself. Ask the Queen.
A Queen's Opinion Podcast
Who Loves You
What if the words "I love you" held more power than you ever imagined? Join me, Queen, as we explore the deep, intrinsic connection behind these three words in our latest episode of "A Queen's Opinion." We'll unpack how these words can transform relationships, the importance of trust and care, and why love remains eternal, even beyond separation or death. I'll guide you through the real essence of love and the gravity of expressing it with intention.
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Speaker 2:Welcome to a Queen's Opinion. My name is Queen, my voice, my opinion and your listening ears. This episode is called who Loves you? Do you know who loves you? Many people through our life journey tell us they love us. I don't think all of the I love you's are real. Maybe you are doing something the person likes, or they enjoy seeing you happy, energetic and they say I love you. They may even just like the fact you are wearing their favorite color and say something like I love you. That color looks so good on you.
Speaker 2:People we meet in our walk of life use the word love in a generally unwise manner and maybe in the wrong context. We need to think about who we say these words to in our life. I love you is not a word that you should speak so easily from your mouth. When you tell someone you love them, now you have taken your friendship, your dating relationship or any type of relationship to another level. Your feelings for that person is now in a whole different category than before. You have now bonded them into your life, so using this word the wrong way or at the wrong time is unwise.
Speaker 2:The word love is powerful. Love comes from the bone marrow that generates the blood in our veins which flows to and through our organs. Love is deep in the heart. Love is encased by trust. This love is covered by layers of caring wrapped in miles of feelings. Instead of hope, love is topped with sprinkles of grace and prayers. I tell my children don't invest too much in hope, but pray instead. Hope is dangerous, scary, sad and painful. You see, hope is dangerous because you have given others the power to control your feelings and maybe your actions. Now that leads to being scary because you have no control over your feelings, which is sad. Your feelings may get hurt depending on the situation, and now that hurt becomes painful. When we invest in hope, the love is hollow. So who loves you? Maybe we need to think about who we tell those words to in our life. I believe telling someone you love them means unlimited access to your heart. There is nothing that person can do to cause you to stop loving them. You and that person are connected, even after death. Yes, you may have a falling out and never talk again, but the love is always right there in your heart. Time will pass, Days, months and years will go by, Children will grow up, Spouses may pass and you may remarry, Old and new friends will enter your life. All these things will happen, but love never dies. Love lives on after separation or death.
Speaker 2:Whenever we think about the people that may have passed on, we think about how much we miss and love them. We remember their smiles and laughter. We think about how that person made us feel whenever we were in their presence. The person may have made you feel confident. They gave us a feeling of joy, happiness and a feeling of love. We remember the jokes told to each other. We remember the silly little games we played together or the silly little stories we told each other, which made us laugh all the time until we were in tears. Honey, we love and miss our loved ones with our whole heart. We never forget our loved ones. My husband reminds me that our loved ones are with us every day. They see what we see, they hear what we hear and they feel what we feel, because we carry them in our hearts.
Speaker 2:The words I love you carries so much weight on our hearts, so when we get hurt by someone, it causes pain. Every time you see a person that caused the pain, you remember how much you love them. You remember the good times you used to have with that person. You remember all the fun places you went together on vacation or at a weekend get-together. This brings a smile to your face with a grin. You ask yourself why, why you don't talk to them anymore. Then the memories begin to flow back into your mind. You look back at the person, Then the undeniable pain and hurt is revealed, first in your mind eye, then moves to your brain, your body reacts and finally pain hits your heart. All this happens in seconds.
Speaker 2:I would ask myself sometimes was that a good reason not to speak to that person again? What if that person is hurt and dies and I never got an opportunity to mend our friendship that was damaged but never really broken off completely? This would haunt me. I never want my loved ones to feel that I never loved them, want my loved ones to feel that I never loved them. Love, deep love, as I stated earlier, is in the bones and flows through you. Even when love hurts and cuts and stabs you, it never leaves your mind, heart or body.
Speaker 2:Do you know who loves you? I hope the people who tell us they love us truly mean it. We pray they want to be in our lives and will always look after us, never seeking to hurt us in any way, mentally or physically. They always want the best for us. We pray their love is true, honest and forever love. The people who say they love you should always put you first when they are making decisions that involves you. They put your well-being first.
Speaker 2:Do you know who loves you? I pray that you do know the answer to this question. Knowing who loves you gives you the strength every day to make it through this world's everyday obstacles. We have good days and bad days, and the people that love us will help us make it through any situation. They're the ones who are going to pick us up when we are down, the ones who are going to pick us up when we are down. Our loved ones are the ones that are going to be there to listen, help us think through a situation and find a solution. They're going to remind us that all our help comes from the Lord. They're going to be there to remind us that All things Are possible Through our Lord, Jesus Christ, who loves you Only you know the answer to this question here at A Queen's Opinion.
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Speaker 2:A Queen's Opinion is a podcast that allows people, especially women, to think out loud about life situations and seek an opinion without being judged. This podcast is supposed to lift you up, encourage you to be the best person you can be, to inspire you to step out of your comfort zone and into your queen zone. I didn't say my opinion will solve your problems. I am not saying that I am right. But what I am saying is I'm going to give you another view of the situation from a distance. No more thinking or questioning a situation by yourself. Ask the queen. Go to our website, wwwaquingsopinioncom and click on get in touch to leave your feedback or leave a question for the queen. Don't forget to like us wherever you get your podcast. Thank you for taking time out of your day. I hope you join me for our next episode. Until then, goodbye.